(Originally posted to social media on October 6, 2020)
I feel compelled to note another passing. Sometimes it seems like that is all I do lately. So many old and dear friends have already gone on down that long and dusty camp road. My good friend Jeff Janosko dropped us a note saying that his father had died in Roanoke. He was 96 years old. While it is a great loss it is hard to be upset about the passing of someone that age. What a remarkable life he led. He has seen things that most of us can only imagine.
I knew Jeffs father very well from the years that Jeff served on my nature staff and from High Knoll. He was a great guy to just sit down and visit with. He loved his kids and he supported them at all times. He would occasionally give me rides back to Roanoke from Camp Powhatan and he could hold his own in any conversation.
The loss of a father or a mother is a hard situation to deal with no matter the circumstance. Memories come flooding back and you reach out to surviving family to plan a funeral in the age of COVID. They want the service to be small and contained to family. There is no sense putting others in danger.
Jeff and Kathy are now living in Gods Country, Colorado near Boulder. He was the best man in my first marriage. There is little that I can say to assuage a loss as profound as this but it is enough to let him know that we are thinking of him and his family.
This has been a difficult year in so many ways. Adding the loss of a parent is one more burden to bear.
(Copyright by John Hankins; all rights reserved. Published here by permission of the author.)



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