(Originally posted to social media on August 20, 2020)
A few minutes ago I was scrolling through Facebook looking for anything that might be positive in Nature, anything that was not politics or Covid 19. Suddenly a face flashed across the screen that I had not seen in 40 years but I would know that person anywhere. It was my old friend Brian Nunn who I had known so well from my days as the Ranger at Camp Chickahominy. His father David was one of my top volunteers and a huge supporter.
I focused on Brians’s dark eyes and wondered what this post was all about. I was horrified to see that his father was posting the fact that Brian had passed away. He was born in 1964, he was still a young man. I do not know any details about his death but I discovered that I was profoundly saddened by this loss. As human beings, it is not in our makeup to have to post the news of our children’s death. It is the greatest loss that we as parents can face.
My heart goes out to David for a loss that can only barely be understood by anyone who has never lost a child. I will not whisper useless platitudes, this will be hard for the entire family. During my time as Ranger, I helped to start an explorer Post as part of troop 103. It was one of the biggest troops in the old Peninsula Council.
Brian was one of the most active members of that group. He was exceedingly quiet but he was not afraid to ask questions and to display an unending curiosity about the world around him. He had a great sense of humor and I often caught him smiling with a very large grin on his face. I remember taking the group up to High Knoll trail camp sometime in the early 80s. This was at Camp Powhatan and these boys from the flatlands struggled with the elevation but they had a great time.
In that week I saw Brian come out of his shell and become much more open and truly excited about the outdoors. Once I became the Ranger up in Richmond I lost track of Brian. But I have never forgotten him. He is one of those kids that just stays with you. The kind of kid you will recall in a quiet moment around a campfire. When the embers are low and children crowd around for a story, that is when I will think of Brian.
(Copyright by John Hankins; all rights reserved. Published here by permission of the author.)



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