(Originally posted to social media on July 5, 2023)
It is not my job to eulogize the world, but when someone dies that was once a close friend I am going to note that passing. The death of Phil Scarborough comes out of left field today to send me back a lot of years. Phil was one of my top volunteers at Brady Saunder’s. He was also a great friend and I have spent many smoky hours sitting around a fire talking about life, and scouting and Givler.
He was one of those rare scouters who had real and impressive building skills and I could put Phil in charge of a major job which set me free to cover other major jobs. Phil loved the Boy Scouts of America with all of his considerable heart. He was in it for the kids because he truly believed in the mission. He was an old Sysonby scouter who was respected by the likes of Rooster Wells and LLoyd Minter. Phil was one of those people who would give you the shirt off of his back and he was a huge supporter of the Ranger’s Challenge program. If there was something that I needed he would make sure I had it.
He dealt with a number of health issues. He suffered the removal of facial tissue that left him scarred. But he just kept on going. There are hundreds of kids out there today who are better people from Phils years as a scoutmaster and a mentor. He was soft spoken and kind and when he spoke, people listened. He earned all of the various awards that the scouts offer but in the end all that really matters is that he made the world a better place.
I always figured that if I got back for some special event I would run into Phil. We would shake hands and laugh and talk about how the world was so different from what we recall as kids. We would stand in a comfortable silence and feel the weight of all of those years. All of the blood sweat and tears along the way. But I waited too long and that chance is gone. There is a lesson in there somewhere, my heart goes out to his wife and any extended family of this incredible human being. Thanks for being there when I needed help. JHH
(Copyright by John Hankins; all rights reserved. Published here by permission of the author.)



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