(Originally posted to social media on April 19, 2022)
Years ago and just before I retired, my wife and I were walking together in Richmond. I do not recall the exact location because that has no bearing on this incident. In either case, a young man approached me and he squared himself in front of me and faced me. He said “John, could I speak to you for a moment?” I could not place his name but there was something familiar about him. He was just another one of thousands of young men who have passed through my life over the years.
We stepped off to the side and he said that “You will not remember me, but I remember you vividly” “I was 16 and I had been sent to camp and somebody signed me up for your Ranger’s Challenge program. I was at a point in my life where I was considering killing myself, I thought about it all the time. But that week with you changed the way I felt about the world and the people in it. You showed us beauty and wonder and empathy and understanding, and I began to see beyond the wall of abuse and anger. I just wanted to shake your hand and say thank you.”
I was unable to speak. Finally I blurted out “Thank You,” and I staggered back to join Cherri. I do not know that kid’s name or his full story, but somehow the world seems like a better place for having known him if only for a short while…..
(Copyright by John Hankins; all rights reserved. Published here by permission of the author.)



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